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Never Be Afraid to Ask

Learn how calling your bill providers can save you a ton of money

These last few weeks have been frustrating as we’re still receiving bills from our second daughter’s birth. We expected most of it, but there have been a few that caught us off guard. They range from $12 to about $350.

I’m all for paying what is due, but I also want to make sure we’re being charged the correct amount.

I requested itemized bills, so once they are confirmed to be accurate, then we’ll pay them. (Still I hate seeing our checking account dip every time we pay.)

Challenge Our Bills

To help counteract all this money leaving, I’m going over all of our regular monthly bills and seeing if we can cut them back.

My inspiration is J’s Challenge Everything series. He has  evaluated and found some ways to hack his bills down. After seven months he’s accumulated almost $4,000!

We could use that kind of money to help kill the student loan and boost our net worth to reach our financial goals this year.

The first on our list? Our internet service.

Ask and You Shall Receive (At Least Sometimes)

Honestly I had no intention of canceling my plan because I need my internet to work from home. So when I spoke with the customer service representative I told her the situation- we had a little one and we’re reevaluating all of our bills.

If you do plan on canceling your service if you don’t get a certain offer, be upfront with that. Let them know they will lose a customer that day unless you get a competitive rate. We’ve done that before and got some significant savings.

Our ten minute phone call result in lowering our monthly bill by 15%. She also suggested going ahead and getting a modem so we can drop the monthly rental charge.

Between the two changes, we should save $160 by the end of this year. Not a ton, but certainly useful.

More importantly we’ve lowered our monthly obligations giving us a bit more buffer between our income and expenses – a nice win in my book.

Thoughts on Bills

I’d love to hear about how you keep your bills in check. How often do you call up your providers and ask for a better deal? How successful were you? Any tips on getting a lower price?

Simple Banking and Humble Bundles

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It’s Friday! Before I check out for the weekend I want to share what’s been going on this past including an awesome deal on games and a checking account designed to help you save more money.

Humble Bundles – Fun Games, Great Causes

Humble Bundle raises money for great causes by offering deals on electronic content. You pay what you want for them and decide how much of the money goes to the publishers and how much goes to charity.

I think it’s a creative way to help out others while affordable snagging some entertainment for yourself.

There’s an Origin bundle right that has five hugely popular titles available (including Dragon Age:Origin)  if you pay any amount. You can also pay more than the average (it’s just under $5 now) and you can unlock eight more titles.

The money will be distributed to these charities:

You still have a few days left if you want to get some games and help out these wonderful charities.You can also check them out from time to time for other specials.

Couple Money Around the Web

Besides writing here, I also run the Couple Money Podcast, contribute to other sites, and occasionally do interviews. Here are few things I’ve been busy with:

Excited about next week’s episode – I’m going over how IRAs can be a huge help for retirement.

Money and More Posts I Loved This Week

I found a few gems this week

I hope you and your family have a wonderful weekend!

How to Stop Fighting About Money and Build Wealth Instead

Welcome Money Smart Week Visitors

Welcome Master Your Money Viewers!  I hope you enjoyed Part One of the Master Your Money series. Please join in Part Two at 8pm ET tonight when three fantastic bloggers share their best money tips.

To make things easier for you, I’ve included below information and links to the topics I discussed in my presentation.

Money & Marriage Podcasts

I’m a believer in finding a support network to help you two learn to communicate better and become more money savvy. With podcasts becoming easier to follow, here are some you may want to listen to and subscribe.

Couple Money Podcast

One reason I created the Couple Money Podcast was to help couples pick up tips and encouragement from real life couples who have been in similar circumstances.

His & Her Money

Talaat and Tai talk about how when they were married that they were total opposites when it came to finances. They climb out of the debt trap (twice!). His & Her Money Podcast features their and others’ stories on how they made it through.

Better Conversation About Money & Marriage

Derek and Carrie have a wonderful podcast show that is all about Better Conversations on Money and Marriage. They’re a fun couple to listen to as they discuss real issues they’ve faced.

Simpler Happier Life Podcast

Mark and Lauren have some wonderful tips on slowing down and simplifying your life so you can be happier. Simpler Happier Life Podcast offers some practical tips on how your can cut back on expenses.

Building Up Your Marriage and Net Worth

There was so much to talk about with the presentation I couldn’t include everything that I wanted to. Depending on your situation, I hope these posts will point you two i the right direction.

Are You Two Looking at Getting on The Same Financial Page? 

Do You Want to Pay Off Debt Fast or Earn More? 

Are you Planning on Starting a Family While Still Building Your Net Worth?

Keeping Up with Couple Money

I hope you’ll take some time to become part of the Couple Money community!

  • Stay up to date on Couple Money by signing up for the free newsletter and find out about the latest posts and information on the Couple Money Community.
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  • Chat with me on Twitter.  Besides catching my daily thoughts and getting my favorite posts of the day, I also enjoy answering questions and chatting.
  • Become a Facebook FanCome share your story about how you two work together on your finances.

Moneystepper’s 2015 Savings Challenge Update #3

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It’s time for an update on the MoneyStepper’s 2015 Savings Challenge. Actually it’s overdue, but because we took a spring break last week I’m not feeling too bad.

I’ve signed us up for it as a fun way to build up our net worth and savings. The two main goals of the challenge are:

  • Grow Your Net Worth
  • Save % of Your Net Income

For 2015 our family will do our best to increase our net worth by 25% and have a 15% savings rate.

March Net Worth and Savings Results

March went by way too quickly – it was my first month back to work since having the baby. Even now, my work schedule changes every two weeks until I can find something that fits.

I’m currently doing a pseudo-split shift where I work in the morning for a couple of hours and then finish up in the evenings after my husband comes home. Not sure if I want to keep this schedule.

Otherwise the only other difference with March versus the previous month is our tax refund. It was smaller than precious years (we’ve gotten better with estimated tax payments with my work), but big enough to bump up our savings.

For those curious, here are our numbers for March:

  • YTD Net Worth Improvement: 8.9%
  • YTD Savings Rate: 27%

I’m really happy about this, especially with the big changes around the house.

Savings Challenge

Graham, though, had a different take on my progress. After I submitted my numbers and gave him an update on what was going on, he sent me a proposal for the challenge:

Given that you are currently 42% ahead of your pro-rata net worth goal and 80% ahead of your savings rate goal, perhaps we should re-evaluate your annual goals in order to keep them relevant and to ensure that you are really pushing yourself.

From our discussions to date, you’ve had one off events in Q1 …. which may not be repeated again in 2015.

Also, the markets up to the end of March have seen the FTSE 350 increase by 3.6% and the S&P 500 increase by 0.5%. Neither of these are hugely anomalous, and so these shouldn’t really factor into our re-evaluation decision.

Therefore, I would recommend that we alter your goals to:

  • Net Worth Increase: 30% (5 percentage points increase compared to your original goals)
  • Savings Rate Increase: 20% (5 percentage points increase compared to your original goals)

I know that this will be a challenge, but it is called the Moneystepper Savings Challenge after all…! 😉

What do you think?

My first reaction was “What? Are you crazy?!” LOL

We had a baby, I got a new workload, still trying to figure out this schedule…

When I took a day to think about it, though, I saw Graham’s suggestion differently. I began to see this as a way to push us to be more financially fit and get rid of the student loan.

We might not reach this new goal, but I believe at the end of year it will get us closer to financial freedom. So I emailed him back and told him we’re in. Hopefully next month’s review will show us meeting this new challenge.

Thoughts on Our MoneyStepper Progress

I’d like to hear about you and your family about your goals and progress so far. Have things been going well? Have you had to deal with any set backs?

Join Us for Money Smart Week and Master Your Money!

Learn how to build your net worth and marriage

Looking to Master Your Money? Great news; Money Smart Week is coming up quick and with it a ton of great events and resources to help you!

Created by the Federal Reserve Bank of Chicago in 2002, Money Smart Week® is a public awareness campaign designed to help consumers better manage their personal finances. This year it runs April 18 – 25, 2015.

There are events throughout the week from partner organizations including financial institutions, libraries, government agencies, media and nonprofits. They’ll be covering all of the major money topics and reaching out to all demographics.

What makes this especially good is that All Money Smart Week® events are FREE! 

Master Your Money

Couple Money is teaming up this year with an group a personal finance bloggers and podcasters to help you master your money. With so much to cover, it’s divided into two sessions so you can get the information and encouragement you need to tackle your money problems.

For those curious, here are the panelists:




The topic I’ll be tackling is How to Stop Fighting About Money and Build Wealth Instead. It will be focused on helping couples who have different and opposite getting on the same page

The session is free, but seating is limited. Register for either or both Master Your Money sessions today (use the links below) and reserve your spot.

Curious About How to Master Your Money

If you have any questions you’d like answered, please email me. I’ll also be updating this post as more information becomes available.