It would’ve been impossible if we tried to do it all while having our day to day budget be based on both incomes.
I was an intern at the time, so it made sense to us to base the family budget on my husband’s pay. We’ve done our best to keep to this system.
When we were looking at a house to buy, we again made the choice to focus on only one income.
We also focused on keeping the numbers based on net pay, not gross income.
While we could’ve looked at more houses in “our price range”, we decided to stay within our self imposed limits. It gave a us measure of comfort, knowing we were having a bit off buffer with our finances.
Another reason for us to be conservative was our goal to have a reasonable interest rate with our mortgage.
We knew that in addition to the down payment we’ll put down, the lenders were looking at a couple of other numbers to determine the interest rate they offered.
Debt to Income Ratio
Having a high amount of debt can ruin your chances of getting a loan. Lenders want to know that you can make these payments for years down the line and your debt to income ratio is one thing they analyze.
Your debt to income ratio is calculated by simply taking all your debt (student loans, credit cards, car loans, etc) and dividing that amount by your income.
You want to make sure your ratio is lower rather than higher. If your debt to income ratio is higher than 36%, you could have a hard time qualifying for a mortgage.
Loan to Value Ratio
Another reason to take your time and build a down payment is the loan to value ratio and how it affects your chances of getting a mortgage.
The loan-to-value (LTV) ratio is basically the mortgage loan amount you’re hoping to get divided by the appraised value of the property you’re considering to buy.
Don’t Forget Your Other Goals!
This is important becuase lenders and real estate agents don’t figure this into their calculations.
Your lifestyle will be affected significantly unless you plan accordingly.
Buying a house can be a great financial and personal goal to have if you prepare ahead of time.
You have basically have some options to look at carefully before you make a final decision.
Be patient and wait a bit until you buy your house. Give yourself more time to have a bigger down payment. This will lower your mortage loan amount you’d need. Prices could stay lower than normal with unemployment problems continuing.
Focus on getting a starter home. You can still buy a home, but you might consider getting something a bit more inside your price range, so you have bigger amount of wiggle room. If you’re buying your first home, a starter home can a better option. You may upgrades years down the road or you might find you like the house and stay.
Go for the home. If you’re in a position to get the home you want, that’s great. Just make sure you double check it is something within your budget. Otherwise, consider the first two options.
Thoughts on Buying a House You Can Afford
How did you how much mortgage you could afford? Did you rely on the estimate from the lenders or did you run the numbers yourself?
Did you receive any pressure from your real estate agent to get a more expensive house? If so, how did you cope with it?
If you’re a home owner, what kind of mortgage did you get and why?